How has a threesome wwm affected a couples relationship?

can anyone tell me about thier relationship as a couple after they've had a threesome with another woman?How has a threesome wwm affected a couples relationship?
Those who say that threesomes destroy relationships are not completely correct. We have been married nearly twenty years and have had a few threesome experiences will no ill-effect. I am not saying you will have the same result but the point I am making that there is not a natural relationship where a threesome = relationship ending. However I would not recommend rushing into having a threesome until you have thoroughly discussed the idea with your partner in order to ensure both of you have the same understanding regarding your boundaries and are both comfortable with the idea of a threesome occurring.





With that said the two biggest risks you will face when having a threesome with a woman are the other woman becomes attached to the two of you. This can be difficult if you are wanting to create some distance in order to prevent feelings from developing. Another issue is the your female partner may feel threatened by the other. Feeling threatened by the other at least from my perspective seems to be more of an issue with two women then men. Best advice is to listen to your wife / girlfriend and be sure that you communicate with the other woman your boundaries. Without good communication and understanding a fmf threesome can go horribly wrong.How has a threesome wwm affected a couples relationship?
I have never participated in one. But, I know some people who have. Not one of the couples stayed together for more than 2 months. The threesome is for the guy. It has a tendency to make the woman who is supposed to be dating the guy feel jealous and inadequate. Eventually the threesome creates enough insecurity that the relationship ends in a big cloud of crap.





If you ever consider doing a threesome...don't do it.





Unless:





1 - You have no feelings toward any of the parties involved.





2 - You are ready to get some kind of STD. Most people willing to get int threesomes are not exactly virgins.





3 - You consider the long-term affect it will have on future relationships
I had a husband once who wanted a threesome. That was easy to answer, NO, actually, HELL NO. The only times I have ever heard of couples that had a three way were when they filed for divorce. Either the man decides he like the other woman better or the other way around. It has always been and always will be, a recipe for disaster.
I've had a few threesomes with my husband %26amp; he actually got jealous that I got along so well with the other women! He got so paranoid that I would leave him!!





While it was good fun at the time, I would never do it again as it's not worth it for all the aggravation of his jealousy %26amp; paranoia.





If you're secure in your relationship with your partner %26amp; he feels the same way (as in no jealousy whatsoever) then go for it, I say!!
ok i'll be honest, i have had a 3some with my husband and one of my best friends (wwm),alot of people who know about it said that it would ruin our marriage and for awhile it was kind of hard, but if you love your partner and they love you then it should be alright, but you need to make sure that everyone knows boundaries and don't be afraid to voice your own personal boundaries, really it all just depends on you and your significant other.
my very best friend decided when we were all younger that she was going to have a wwm 3some, with our other really good friend. and my best friend, who's bright idea it was, was doing it because it's something she thought her man would be impressed by, they had been together about 2 years already at that point. well, it went horribly. her man ended up doing her best friend, while she was drunk and cried in the bathroom the whole time. from what i hear, it started off as her and her friend, and then her man wanted to touch and play...she got mad and stormed out, so he just screwed the friend. eventually her and the friend made up, she admitted it was her bad idea and they were all drunk. but they were never very close again like before. and she was insecure and mad at her man for a very, very long time. they ended up staying together 7 years total, he wouldn't marry her, and she finally left him.





now here's my 3some story, and this was years ago way before i met my husband, but i was in a serious relationship. i think i was 18 maybe...i always said the only way i'd be with a girl is if she was really super hot and from another state, but somehow she came with references and i knew she wasn't nasty. (i figured that would never happen!) so one day my man at that time had a really good friend visiting from out of town. i knew this guy really well and liked him a lot. we were all drunk, and got to talking about 3somes, and i told him the only way i'd ever do it. so...he gets on the phone and calls his g/f in whatever state he lived in, i forget, and gets her a plane ticket, and she's there in the morning! really sweet, really pretty nice girl. we hit it off right away and hung out all day, got drunk and went crazy that night. her and i decided to experiment and such and both enjoyed it a lot, but then the b/f's wanted to join in. she was all for it, i wasn't. my guy got really pissed off that i wasn't interested in him, or anything but just me and her, it turned into a huge fight. so..that was that! never will do it again, never.
after a 3 some,wwm, my relationship didnt change a bit,,but then gain, my relationship and relations ships, are quie a bit differnat fro otheres,,but i will tell u this,,if there is any weakness or jealious within ur relationship,,dont do it,,it will destoy anything you have between you two
Interview several divorce lawyers before participating. I have known no married couple who have survived this arrangement unless they were wacko's to start. Wacko's understanding of marriage start at lust and last until lust runs out and they need to start over yet again.
Had them as BF and GF but not has husband and wife. Did not marry that woman. If both parties not really in to it then it would be a bad thing. For those both who do enjoy ROCK ON. SWEET MILDRED IS MY LEADER...CRAWL INTO HER PLAYPEN WITH ME
Sounds ';HOT';





You have to really enjoy this, in order to do such things. I would think the wife would have to be able to handle both the husband and the other woman. cause it takes a lot of sexual energy to do such things.
If you want to eventually destroy your marriage - have a 3 some. Anytime you add in a 3rd party to your relationship (live or porn) you are asking for problems.
It can go both ways so you and your husband really need to talk about every different feelings yall can have during it and after. Then decide what is best for yall.
From my observation it will usually destroy a relationship.
I never had one, but I think my husband would be more interested in the new addition, and I would definitely be not Ok with that... it would hurt my self esteem.
Threesome will leave you with an emotional scar that will never heal.
Watch ';indecent proposal';.. they'll answer your question


AND its a good movie!
I think your sick if you are thinking about or have done somthing like this. This is no marriage!
The only people I have known who did, broke up.
DO NOT DO THIS!!!!
I did it b4 I was married and we split up right after and have not talked since. Would never do it again