Thursday, December 31, 2009

Who helps jewish couples decide whether they should get married?

I tend to agree with Rusty on this.Who helps jewish couples decide whether they should get married?
We decide ourselves. The orthodox might still become betrothed if they're having trouble finding a mate.Who helps jewish couples decide whether they should get married?
Faith is right, don't try to name every religion there is, you'll have carpel tunnel syndrome before you finish.
First it was christians, then muslims, now jewish, next hindu then punjabi....what next?????????????????????
Huh?





Nobody can make that decision except the couple themselves. What are you really asking?
They ask me. Actually, every faith, including agnostics and athiests.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shidduchim
My daddy, you should call him





1-800-helpthosewithstupidquestions
Adam Sandler
who knose?
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  • I'm going to a dance where couples dress as super-hero type couples. Any ideas?

    superman and wonderwomanI'm going to a dance where couples dress as super-hero type couples. Any ideas?
    Batman and Catwoman!I'm going to a dance where couples dress as super-hero type couples. Any ideas?
    The devil's world.


    Happy Halloween!


    螣 魏蠈蟽渭慰蟼 蟿慰蠀 未喂伪尾蠈位慰蠀.


    螘蠀蟿蠀蠂蔚委蟼 伪蟺慰魏蟻喂苇蟼!
    First thing I thought of, was Lois and Superman and Lois Lane. You'd BOTH look great!
    Cat Woman
    Mr. Incredible and Elastigirl from ';The Incredibles';





    Cyclops and Jean Grey from ';X-Men';





    You should probably step away from the typical superhero couples such as Superman/Lois and Spiderman/Mary Jane. Not to say they aren't great, but since you are going to a party where couples are dressing up as superhero couples most likely there's going to be other Supermen and Mary Janes there.
    Spiderman and Mary Jane!

    Would boyfriend prefer couples massage or alone?

    I was thinking of getting my boyfriend a gift certificate to a day spa..





    But guys, would you feel awkward going alone?


    Would you feel better going with your girlfriend or would it be nice just to get away for a little while and go by yourself?Would boyfriend prefer couples massage or alone?
    If he's already familiar with getting professional massages, then he would probably be fine either way. If this will be his first professional massage at a day spa, go with him and get one yourself (perhaps a couples massage). If he's the typical guy he'll probably feel a little awkward even if he really does want a massage. With you there he'll have the 'girlfriend' excuse (which you are to not take offense at, just let him be a typical guy). Unless he's totally insecure I bet he'll like it!





    Oh, yeah: if he's uncomfortable with the day spa idea (you know how guys can feel about day spas, especially if the spa is particularly 'foo-foo') there may be a therapist (or two) in your area who could do an in-home massage. I've included a link to the American Massage Therapy Association's Find a Therapist website. You can trust an AMTA member to be professional and ethical.





    Hope I didn't overload you. Cheers!Would boyfriend prefer couples massage or alone?
    How about make a coupon yourself and give him a massage. He will like that alot

    What makes certain couples stand out as good examples to the rest?

    For the most part, they take the time to listen to each other. There's care and concern, but most important, they're genuinely fond of each other.What makes certain couples stand out as good examples to the rest?
    The longevity of the relationship, their loyalty to one and other, their passion, love, and acceptance of every imperfection, how they build and grow and ALWAYS make each other a better person.What makes certain couples stand out as good examples to the rest?
    Respect.
    If they are respectful and loving towards each other and rarely have a fight.
    If they fight and talk things through. I think that couples who don't fight are strange. Where's the passion?!





    I think that couples who put each other's needs ahead of their own are good examples as well.
    the strong feelings that they share... in this fragmented and chaotic world that is really something hard to find.
    they are meant to be together...we all strive to find ';the one.';
    You have to be able to laugh about stuff, even if nobody else gets the humor. That is actually even better, keeping it personal.
    if they last long :)
    respect for each other
    Harmonie*
    unconditional love


    the respect they have for each other


    always got each others' back


    cooperation :)
    the way they communicate and understand one another

    Question for unmarried couples with kids?

    what do you call your signif's parents...


    is it mom/dad or by their first name...





    i've got friends that call their signif's parents, uncle or aunty. lol strange


    they've already crossed the line, so what not call them mom and dad.Question for unmarried couples with kids?
    I call them by their first names...


    although hubby and I call his dad ';papaditty pop'; just a nickname that stuck...lolQuestion for unmarried couples with kids?
    thanks for BA =)

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    Thankfully, I rarely have to talk to his mom. I always avoid calling people things though. I guess I passed that onto my kids, they call me mom when talking about me but don't call me anything to my face. I say ';his mom'; when talking about the bf's mom.
    I'm divorced, and I call his mom by her first name, Jan. She's a B!+c#, so behind her back we call her by other names. :)
    Why are we discussing this question again?Call them by their first name.
    I always called her That Crazy Betch or Pycho Cavewoman. But that's probably because we hate each other.

    All you married couples please come here, I need your help with my coursework :)?

    Right I need your help for my R.E Course work.


    I nee to know from 5 different married people the following questions:


    Please help me and answer truthfully Thank You





    Name of you and Partner?


    Where were you married?


    Why did you get married?


    And length of marriage?





    Thank You, All you married couples please come here, I need your help with my coursework :)?
    my name is kelly and my hubby is keith





    2. brookport illinois at a church called waldo baptist church





    3. because i loved my hubby very much and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him...


    4. 11yrs this november and been together almost 13 yrs...All you married couples please come here, I need your help with my coursework :)?
    Denise and Markal


    At my church


    Love and we didn't want to shack!!!


    Been together 5 years...married for 3 months
    Elizabeth and Paul


    Manchester, England


    We were in love


    Dated for 4 years - Married for 25 years
    Rob %26amp; Dawn


    Las Vegas


    Because we love eachother


    5 years
    the on-line names of myself and my partner - Aslan and Androcles





    Where we were married - in our local church





    why? because we were in a long term relationship and wanted to put our relationship on a longer term footing. also we wanted kids (we now have one child and several cats) and a sexual relationship (neither of us believed in sex outside of marriage)





    length of marriage - 16 years (not counting the 6 years we were an item before we were married)
    Helen and Brian





    In the Crypt of Canterbury Cathedral.





    Because we wanted to. I was 36 ,HHe was 40.





    36 years.
    sara and martin


    dover kent england


    love and baby but planned to get married before baby but baby showed up first


    will be maried 1yr in november but was together 3 years before that
    Taxi Man and Blondie





    Long Island, New York





    LOVE!





    14 years so far!
    Trina and Joe


    Tennessee


    We couldn't stand being apart.


    8 glorious years
    John and Anne Taylor


    Texas


    Love


    17 yrs
    Jane and David


    Glasgow Register Office


    Because we loved one an other and wanted a family


    8 years
    lisa and stephen


    hertfordshire


    love


    6 weeks and counting!
    Lucy and Paul


    We got married at the North Stafford Hotel in Stoke-on-trent


    We got married because we want to be together forever and wanted the world to know it!


    We got married in november 2007, so almost 10 months.
    Rae and David


    In a court house by a J.P.


    Both of us on the rebound. We don't like being alone.


    1 1/2 years. Been together 2 1/2 years. We didn't even like each other when we got married. But, we are learning everyday how to communicate and love each other.
    Eric %26amp; Stacy


    St Cloud MN


    Love and best friends


    7 years
    Beth and Patrick


    At a fancy restaurant, with family (we had a self uniting marriage license, so no preacher/minister was needed.)


    Because we are best friends


    Together two years, married for two months now
    Donald and Jillian


    Had outdoor wedding at his parents' home


    Got married b/c we were in love (and pregnant!)


    Married 2 years
    Thuy


    Vegas


    To form a family


    5 years

    Monday, December 28, 2009

    Why do couples need to consider their childern before they divorce?

    There was a recent article I read which indicated that children are more affected by the divorce of their parents than previously thought.





    Although it is often stressed to children that their parents are divorcing each other and not the children, children often do not see a divorce that way.





    Children feel not only that their worlds have been changed but that they might be the cause. They need reassurance and active demonstration that this is not the case.





    According to Robert Hughes an Associate Professor in the Department of Human Development and Family Science at Ohio State University, ';Children of divorce are twice as likely as children living in non-divorced families to experience difficulties. Roughly 20% to 25% of these children will have problems...';


    ';Children from divorced families are more likely to have academic problems. They are more likely to be aggressive and get in trouble with school authorities or the police. These children are more likely to have low self-esteem and feel depressed. Children who grow up in divorced families often have more difficulties getting along with siblings, peers, and their parents. Also, in adolescence, they are more likely to engage in delinquent activities, to get involved in early sexual activity, and to experiment with illegal drugs. In adolescence and young adulthood, they are more likely to have some difficulty forming intimate relationships and establishing independence from their families';





    Older children feel saddness and loss in addition.





    Here's a site which lists the issues from a child's perspectives, it is a bit brief but it is a start and it does point out that there is hope that the home environment will be less emotionally charged and free of the tension between the parents:


    http://www.divorcesource.com/info/childr鈥?/a>





    It is important for divorcing parents to understand and agree not to verbally abuse each other via their children after the divorce. I've seen one side of it in a relative and it isn't pretty. Thank goodness for the child that it ocurred with one parent only.





    Couples divorcing need to be able to talk to each other and not through an intermediary about the care, health, welfare, money, everything that has to do with their children. They need to be honest with each other - even if it is the first time they have done so - because there is no reason for the innocent victims to be victimized twice or repeatedly.





    Plans have to be in place for who will take the carpools, who will take time off to take children for doctors' appointments, piano lessons, whatever. How holidays will be sent. There needs to be equity. More fathers these days are far more enlightened and involved with their children than we used to see. More mothers have serious job responsibilities. Recognition of these changes has still not reached many courts so these things need to be resolved first without recrimination.





    I happen to think that counselling should be required before couples with children can divorce. Couselling for the parents and for the children. And for all parties together afterwards.





    There is so much grief associated with divorce as it is, children should have all the help available.





    There are many things couples can do to prepare their children for divorce if these parents know that divorce is inevitable. They need to be the adults and loving parents their children need them to be.Why do couples need to consider their childern before they divorce?
    Because when a couple has children and they are thinking about getting a divorce it can really mess with the child/children.Considering that they aren't going to have a mom and a dad to come home to everyday, they have to go back and forth and it messes with there life.Why do couples need to consider their childern before they divorce?
    When my [now ex] wife and I got married we always agreed that if we had children that whatever happened we would stay together while the kids were in education.We stopped loving each other years before I divorced her but waited until the youngest was 18 until we separated.





    The kids had a good stable home life and during the years that my wife and I were going through the motions of being man and wife we both became good mates even though we did not love each other.





    The kids are well adjusted, had 2 parents all the way through school and are all decent young men with good values, the kids get on well with both their mother and me who are still friends, we all go out together occasionally.





    My ex wife and I stayed together because we both had a responsibility to our kids and both love our kids, we made the kids together and were both responsible for giving them the best opportunities in life and all the love and support that we could.
    because it breaks up a family


    it shakes up the child's world


    they care about their kid more than anything





    no one wants to ruin their child's life
    What ';I hate you too'; said...
    Uh? Is that a serious question?
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  • Should gay couples be given the same legal rights as heterosexuals in adopting children?

    I think whoever wants to adpot should be able to adopt. If you can pass all the tests and stuff they make you go through, then who is to say who can and cannot adopt. Someone else wrote that when they are given up for adoption the parents might say they dont want a gay couple to adopt there kid. My anwser to this is oh well because they gave up there child...Should gay couples be given the same legal rights as heterosexuals in adopting children?
    No. Homosexuality should not be impressed upon innocent children. I know I'm discriminating and I'm sorry, but it's not something I agree with. I think homosexuality is a mental disorder...not a lifestyle choice.Should gay couples be given the same legal rights as heterosexuals in adopting children?
    Yes, if they can provide safe home.
    Yes.
    Not without a complete rewrite of the adoption code. There are those giving up children to adoption that would prefer it go to a heterosexual couple, the children from these would need to be identified.
    Nope. Kids need a mom and a dad, they get something different from each.
    Sure, why not





    The only thing matters that the children are in a loving home, with caring parents.
    hell no! i have no interest in speeding up damnation for the rest of us.
    absolutely. they are still human, and as long as they can pass the same hurdles that heterosexual couples have to, then they are just as qualified to raise a child.
    Hell no, that's just nasty. Talk about child abuse forcing a child to grow up in that indecency.
    Yes. Gay people have the same capacity to love and care for a child that you will find in a heterosexual couple.
    Are there any valid reasons not to give them equal rights? This is America; every person is entitled to equal rights.
    I would have to say morally, no. Legally, yes. It will be hard on the child as it gets older having two parents of the same sex and could be mentally and emotionally damaging. Legally though, but the constitution, we are suppose to all be equal and have equal rights regardless of race, sex, or sexual preference.
    OF COURSE!!! my uncle is gay and has two kids (from a previous marriage) and hes a great dad and uncle.He loves his sons with all his heart...but because he loves a man hes a bad father??How dare you imply that because they love a man or woman that they shouldnt be allowed to be loving and nurturing parent??AND just to let yall know his Sons Jake and Josh both have girlfriends and one play football and the other play soccer so how gay are they?!
    NO. Just think of what the child would go through when all the kids at his school realise he has two dads (or two mums). Anyway, it just wouldnt be right %26amp; i think the whole issue is sick.
    Yes. Many anti-gay people will answer no because they dont want children to be raised to be gay. Well, unless you think that the V.P. and his wife are gay, then it is rather obvious that the sexual orientation of your parents has nothing to do with whether you are gay.





    There are many children who need a good loving home. As long as heterosexual couples are able to adopt a child, then the same standards used to allow them to adopt should be used for homosexual couples.
    No.





    I have no problem with gay couples about their living styles.


    They have their own right to choose it.





    We, as human being, understand that in order to produce a new life, you need a sperm from a male and an egg from a female to form a new life. This is a very very true fact. I don't think we can deny the fact. Given this fact, we understand that a normal and healthy family must consist of a male who is a father and a female who is a mother. We want to give our kids or adopted children a correct image about what a family is. If they choose to be a gay couple when they are grown up, that's okay because they can choose their living style when they are grown up. But as parents, I think we ought to give them a clear definition about what a true family is i.e. a father and a mother and them.
    No
    There are so many children out there without homes and with no one to love them. I absolutly support adoption by gay couples.


    I know a lot of gay couples who would love to adopt a child, I think the couples I know would make wonderful parents!
    [giggle]





    Many people who answered seemed to think that if you're around gays, you ';catch'; it from them.





    You know what that says about YOU, right? Children, can you spell 'latent'? (I mean, if they were assured in their own sexuality, they wouldn't think that proximity would effect it.)





    Not really funny, I suppose.





    Of course: If a couple is found to be capable of providing a good and loving home, by all the regular ';tests'; (except one) they should be allowed to adopt.





    Not being allowed by the government to marry should NOT bar couples from adopting children or babies.
    As long as they give the child a loving home, then why not?
    yes. Even Bill O'rielly says having a child adopted to a gay family is much better than foster care. If gays are held to the same standard as straights when it comes to adoption than I think it is ok. A loving home with stability and structure is a much better environment for children than being in foster care.
    Of course.





    Unlike hetero couples, gay couples have to actively seek out a method of ';having children';.





    They can't just go ';oops!'; and have a kid. They have to go through the proper channels, agree to background checks, and often pay large sums of money.





    Loving couples who go through this obviously want to be parents, and I'd have to say they're the kind of people that should be allowed to adopt.
    Never. This is just taking all this political correct nonsense a step too far. It won't surprise me that they will succeed in getting this law passed.





    Children need a proper home. Okay, life is not perfect and we have one parent families, etc and I am sure the gay community will have the very best law representatives on their side. The fact that this is even a question being asked shows how close we are becoming to madness. I'm not homophobic. But no, its wrong. The worst thing is it will probably be some idiot like Elton John who gets to adopt the first baby, and will get nothing but good PR from it. We live in sad times were anything is possible.
    Yes! I think they should have to prove that they are in a committed relationship and have a back round check just like a heterosexual couple, but heck yeah! Weather you think being gay is wrong or not, kids are certainly better off in a gay couple's home than in a group home or orphanage. Having someone to care for you and love you as an individual is much more important than who your parents are attracted to.





    I think that people who oppose it are willing to deny a child a happy healthy home for a rediculouse reason. How many straight parents abuse, neglect, preasure, and otherwise mistreat their children? How selfish and hateful, so many people willing to leave children abandoned rather than live with gay people!
    I personally don't think they should, because legally a gay ';marriage'; isn't recognized legally, so I say no. However, there are plenty of straight parents that expose and do some pretty horroble things to kids, so why not?
    NO. THAT IS NOT A NORMAL UNION THUS IT SHOULD NOT BE PERPETUATED.
    Certainly those hot lipstick lesbian types should... and gay guys, if they're both not too effeminate. If the moms are way butch or the dads are really gay-gay, then the kids will get made fun of too much.

    Why Some couples are not interest to get baby in their life ?

    They want to enjoy bieng a couple for awhile before they have any kids. No rush!Why Some couples are not interest to get baby in their life ?
    I don't want a baby because i was abused and tortured as a child and you know how they say people are more likely to abuse when they have been abused? Well that is just a huge fear of mine and i do not want to take the chance of ruining someone else's life. That way the abuse stops with me.





    Plus i feel having a child is a huge responsibility and i am just not ready for that, it takes a lot of work and patience and i really do not have very much patience with children in the first place....





    I also love my relationship with my husband.. EVERY couple i know who has had a baby it has destroyed or almost destroyed their marriage.Why Some couples are not interest to get baby in their life ?
    They don't want kids.
    They're not not-interested in having a baby, but some were not gifted for a baby.





    But if they're on purpose, financial is on the top of priority.
    my husband and I have so far chosen not to have children. there are several reasons why:


    1- we both have bad genes (addiction, mental illness, every disease known to man, and several generations of cancer)


    2- we're happy in our relationship the way it is, and children change relationships.


    3- we're both kind of selfish, and we're okay with that


    4- and my husband was severely abused as a child, and is afraid to pass that on.


    many many more reasons, but you'd get bored reading them all.
    They don't want to take the responsibility.
    Because they are SMART!
    Some people just don't see they have time or just don't want to have children. They probably like the fact they are free to do what they want and put their jobs first. Also some women don't want to have children because they like the attention that their husbands give them and don't want to have to share the spot light. Personally I would love to have children but physically cant.
    some couples dont want a babey because it has to come with a lot of resopnsibility and duties as a pareent. some may not want because their happly married and dont need a child to be happy. when you think about it their are couples that are constitly having babeys so it kind of makes up but idk how tpo explain it because their are plenty of kids without a home because their parents may have died or they had to give them up because they had them and wernt redy for the responsibilty.
    have you ever dealt with children. there a bi+ch n a half to take care of. and as they get older itll get easier than harder 1 step forward 2 steps back
    Nikki I know what you mean I didn't have any kids for the same reason. Im 63 And I don't feel like I missed any thing After I seen the hell alot of my friends had. Why would you want to bring a child in to this world today, I don't know about u all But Its not getting any better out there Nikki I hope you read this You take care Sorry But I dont know how to get to write anyone on this Yahoo. thing
    because they're selfish and cant handle responsibility well
    My husband and I want children eventually but right now we are enjoying our freedom to come and go as we please, to travel, to have the house to ourselves, etc. Children are a BIG committment that we just aren't ready to make yet.
    UMM, some people just don't want children...it's a very personal choice.
    Because I am selfish...babies are a LOT of work. Plus I just don't have the maternal instinct for some reason.

    If science finds a way to allow same sex couples to produce children, will you stop opposing same-sex marriage?

    I'd do just about anything to see pregnant men in labor!! ;o)If science finds a way to allow same sex couples to produce children, will you stop opposing same-sex marriage?
    No. I also would NOT oppose civil unions for same sex couples even though it is something I believe to be immoral. I oppose changing the definition of marriage, not because it cheapens my union but because it would force priest to preform a service that is in direct violation of their morals. In short same sex marriage may seem to offer equality by allowing same sex couples to enjoy the rights of married couples but it denies equality to the people it forces to act outside their moral/ religious beliefs.





    I can agree that same sex couples do not get a fair shake in tax laws, insurence coverage (in some case), and inheritance practices. These inequalities need to be corrected, but it can be accomplished without forcing others to surrender their rights.If science finds a way to allow same sex couples to produce children, will you stop opposing same-sex marriage?
    People oppose same sex marriage just as people oppose to marring cousins or other relatives that is allowed in other countries. It not about discrimination, it's about tradition. Just because it's always been this way and gays want to change societal and cultural rituals, does not mean it's discrimination.
    Irrelevant issue.


    Adoption and in vitro have produced same-sex families for years.


    If having to produce children is a criteria for marriage then infertile hetero couples cannot be married, hetero couples that don't want children cannot be married.
    Same sex couples CANNOT produce children through their own interactions. So let's stop the crap. I don't object to same-sex marriage, but I do object to this kind of garbage. It raises a question about the mental capacity of same-sex couples. Leave them alone!
    Same sex couples can reproduce - through surrogacy. They can also adopt.








    Since there's lots of straight couples who are infertile and lots of straight couples who chose not to have children (gasp! hethens!), how come you aren't yelling and screaming about taking away their marriage rights? They're not reproducing!





    Use logic next time.
    No. I don't care if people want to make the same mistake that millions of heterosexual couples make every year. That is get married.





    Do I care if they want to produce children? Well, the decision to have children is not a government issue.
    i like it when it pisses off people like you, your momma should enlist you for adoption. why you want to pisses off yourself with that anyway?


    Im getting sick of narrow minded people like you, now we know why you hated your parents so much.
    We're beyond the middle ages here. Marrying for sex was the norm hundreds of years ago. Today, we marry for love. That's why there are INFERTILE HETEROSEXUAL couples. Or are you ignorant to that fact?
    That's like asking:


    ';If science finds a way to regenerate life, will you stop opposing murder?';





    What an ';interesting'; thought process you have there....
    I do not oppose it because when we die and lose the flesh that we wear today, our souls are eternal and have no sex, save the one we give them at the time. Judge the couple by their heart and not their flesh.
    Probably not, but I'd like to see that research!





    But then again, with lupus, diabetes, heart disease, all the cancers out there, shouldn't that be at the end of the line?
    No





    it will still be wrong and totally disgusting





    Hey if dressed Michelle up as a pig she is still a ugly black woman.
    Not rep....that is total BS. Studies show that children raised in homosexual households are just as well adjusted (or more so) than in a hetero household. You say ';every'; shows this...can you give us even ONE?
    Nope, because it is an abomination to God and physically could never happen without planting sperm in to an egg artificially.
    They already got two female mice to reproduce.





    They say that technology might actually happen with women some day.
    Then we would not only have people of the same sex getting married we are messing even more with Mother Nature to produce kids??? Is there no end to this?
    irrelevant





    Why then allow infertile straight couples to marry
    possibly


    As long as raising a child without a mom and dad makes sense. But so far, EVERY study has shown a child needs BOTH to be ';normal';. Isn't that what we want? ';Normal'; kids??
    When men start pooping out babies from their anus i will but i dont see that happening anytime soon.
    WTF
    What sick scientist would want to research that?
    let's produce some children that can handle the drive thru window at Burger King
    No and no.
    Nope.
    you are one sick fk...does that mean a dog can give birth to a chicken....
    No, what are we gunna start marring next, goats and people?
    I'm still waiting on pigs to fly.
    nope
    what !! !!!!!!!!!!!??????





    MAN ......!!








    this is pure madness !!!!

    Are these couples trying to make me christians. HELP PLEASE?

    I asked this question awhile but I have more questions. Do christians try the get people to join there religion,





    I don't want to be christian





    The guy comes over to play rock band and halo is that ok.Are these couples trying to make me christians. HELP PLEASE?
    No one can make you become one Christian, let alone two or more.Are these couples trying to make me christians. HELP PLEASE?
    Ultimately, he probably wants to see you give your life to Christ. That is the desire of every Christian. But that doesn't mean he doesn't legitimately want to be your friend. The question is, can you handle being friends with someone who honestly cares about your eternal salvation and earthly well-being? Even if you disagree with the guy, you can't accuse him of the wrong motives.
    Christians and Muslims want converts for the wealth and power it brings.


    If you are so weak that someone can force or intimidate you into any religion, you have a very real problem with life in general. You just need to grow a backbone and tell them to bugger off.
    As far as I'm concerned you can believe or not. It's your choice and I won't try to get you to believe in anything. As for the guy coming over to play Rock Band and Halo, if you don't want him coming over any more, tell him.
    im muslim, and i try to guide people towards it because i believe its the truth and its our duty, so prob same with christians... they think thats the truth and thats it
    Your avatar loses all credibility.





    Compootah hata!
    Are you really that weak-minded and easy to deceive? Why don't you call children's aid and ask for help?
    I dont...you are welcome to join us though anytime. Methodist

    For those who answered the one about harry potter couples/ harry and hermione?

    I have proof: 1/ flings her arms around him 3/ always gripping his arm 5/ ';slight frown'; when he tells her about cho , also arm gripping 6/ tells why they fancy him


    As for Ginny , someone else


    Ron, always made her cryFor those who answered the one about harry potter couples/ harry and hermione?
    I should hope so for Ginny's sake, after all, Ron is her BROTHER!








    LOLFor those who answered the one about harry potter couples/ harry and hermione?
    do u mean evidences about harry/hermione pairing? sorry to inform you but j.k. rowling strongly hinted about ron %26amp; hermione..defintely h/hr is not possible..it may have been fueled because of the movie's exaggeration on h/hr..yes they have chemistry on screen but we have to remember how the books and the characters (and be realistic) are written..h/hr are more like brothers %26amp; sisters.
    I know you hate me...4 christians...Among the terrifying images in books two and three were: a disembodied voice repeatedly


    hissing ';kill';; monstrous, flesh-eating spiders; children being attacked


    and paralyzed; and an apparently dead cat hung upside down by its tail (USA Today,


    June 15, 2000).





    In book four of the series (Goblet of Fire) the evil character named ';Wormtail';


    cuts up Harry鈥檚 arm to extract blood in order to bring ';Voldemort'; (the


    most evil character) back to life. (This is an occult practice done to supposedly


    pass mystic power from one person to another during some occult rituals.) Rowling


    called Voldemort a ';raging psychopath, devoid of the normal human responses


    to other people鈥檚 suffering . . .'; (Entertainment Weekly, #554, August 11,


    2000). Also in the latest epic, Harry鈥檚 parents, who have been killed, have to


    be extracted from Voldemort鈥檚 magic wand. What kind of books are these and what


    inspires Row ling鈥檚 work? We believe we know. She said, ';It鈥檚 important


    to remember that we all have magic inside us . . .'; during an interview being


    taped for an ';Scholastic Book Fair'; video. And when asked in an August


    2000 Entertainment Weekly interview by writer Jeff Jensen if she felt any sense


    of social responsibility (for the dark nature of the content of Harry Potter) Rowling


    answered, ';I cannot write to please other people.';
    NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! Harry and Ginny FOREVER!!!!


    And Ron always made Hermione cry because she wanted to be in his arms but since he was acting like such an *** he was breaking her heart = tears
    Hermione DEFINITELY likes Ron, but I think she tries to hide her feelings by being a bit clingy with Harry. She helped get Harry and Ginny together, so she doesn't like Harry THAT way. Hermione has matured in the last books, and hangin' with the guys for so many years has made her form a sort of bond- which is why she gets involved in their personal lives.
    Harry likes Hermione as a friend. Ron likes Hermione and that is a fact.

    Friday, December 25, 2009

    Do married couples personalities become more similar the longer they are married?

    I've been married for 2 years and I seem to have picked up some of my wifes personality traits and quirks and vice versa. Is this common, especially as you are married longer?Do married couples personalities become more similar the longer they are married?
    I think so, I have been married for 2 years also and together 4 years. And my husband and I act so much alike now. We also will talk at the same time and say the exact same thing. Talk about weird, but I think the closer you are to each other the more you come to act ,talk, and think alot more alikeDo married couples personalities become more similar the longer they are married?
    I don't believe that, traits is something that is already embeded in you. I would prefer compromise... you may found out that you eat what she cooked even if it doesn't taste good. :-)





    You may go out shopping with her but not actually enjoying it.





    She may go out taking beer with you but she don't actually like beers but your company.
    Oh i absolutely think so! I find it very hard to keep myself from picking up on the things I don't like about him... interesting, I just realized that. I find myself using his catch phrases, slang, and compliments. It seems it would be very difficult to not pick up on any of these.
    Yes it is common. It comes part and parcel with being in a relationship, which is sometimes one of the best things--you get exposed to things you wouldn't have before and it makes you more adventurous.
    O' Yes


    it is very common, and the longer you are


    married the better it becomes, remember


    you are one of the same and each others


    traits and quirks do rub off onto the other
    Yes, I think so. If two people are in a good relationship they would be agreeable on most things and would express themselves in ways that are familiar and comfortable to each other. The same way a child mimics a parents behavior.
    Sure, its a common thing. You can't help but pick up on each other habits, you see this person every day, they are bound to rub off on you.
    yes as you are with each other for longer periods of time and you learn to adjust to your partner needs
    Yes, the longer you are married the more you mingle together
    yes..
    Your grow together as time goes on.
    from my own experience, yes.
    Yes, we both love beer!
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  • Do engaged couples still do this?

    The majority of wedding invitations I have received over the years have nearly always included a 3x5 or 5x7 engagement photo. Do people still do that or is that one of the many things that has disappeared into the past?Do engaged couples still do this?
    I have been to a wedding recently that have done that. I thought it was a nice gesture and it gave me a picture of them. I think its a good idea if that is what you want to do.

    Question for couples.. can you list the pros and cons of your relationship?

    I mean, what keeps you together, what annoys you about your partner - what do you love about them, that kind of thing?





    Just curious...Question for couples.. can you list the pros and cons of your relationship?
    No. This sounds like a typical girly question to ask for the sole purpose of annoying men. Go awayQuestion for couples.. can you list the pros and cons of your relationship?
    Pros:


    We enjoy the same things and get on really well together


    Hes very caring and attentive and can do really sweet things


    We're both on the same level - kinda have the same opinions on things and people - have similar backgrounds so we gel well together


    We take an interest in each others hobbies





    Cons:


    He doesnt like the cinema - which I LOVE so thats a balls!


    He suffers from arithitis in his knees which can make him cranky or irritable at times


    He has quite a few female admirers which Im not happy about


    he loves his sleep and lying in - which I dont like as Im quite an active person and like to get up as soon as I wake up





    xx
    cons-my husband can sometimes do annoying guy things like chew and gulp loudly, goof around too much when i need him to be deep and serious





    pros-he's very compassionate, patient, understanding and honest with me. he cares for me and cuddles me just as much as i need and i feel like he needs me just as much.





    i love that he makes me laugh all the time, that he helps me to make the right decisions, that he treasures my opinion, and most of all that he appreciates my artistic talents and accepts my weirdness.





    we work really hard to communicate constantly even when we're mad or annoyed. this is what keeps our relationship clean of bumps.

    Should children's books have stories that include homosexual couples?

    No, No, No and No!!!!Should children's books have stories that include homosexual couples?
    you are an ignorant piece of ****.

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    Should children's books have stories that include homosexual couples?
    I think we need to include every family type. Let`s face it, unmarried women, unmarried men, invitro, adoption, bisexual, homosexual...it`s all part of human existence.I think if the book had families in a non sexual way, ( having a picnic, swimming in a pool), it would be completely okay.
    No.


    And for very good reasons. The act of homosexuality is wrong. We should not indoctrinate our children into the propaganda of the militant homosexual machine. We have a moral obligation to leave the politically correct foolishness out of our children's story books.
    I don't know about 'should', but I see nothing particularly wrong with some children's stories including homosexual couples. I'd also like to see more children's books that include men cooking and washing up and women using power tools and building shelves.
    I say yes. This can be a ticklish subject, particularly for a heterosexual couple to talk about. Nonetheless it is a fact of life and it would be well for children to know that it happens, and that it's okay.
    I don't think so. It is too confusing for children. In fact, it is even too confusing for adults.
    No! and No!
    yes with graphic descriptions of what the gays get up


    i don't like kids and want to give them nightmares
    SICK!





    according to Liberals/Progressives that would be the best for kids to read!!
    Well that depends.





    Do we want children learning about nothing but fairy tales where everyone lives happily ever after or do we want them to learn about reality where sometimes two women live together or two men live together.





    Personally I think a little bit of both is good. It's not as if the homosexual couples in the books are going to go into detail about their private lives.

    can married couples get sexually transmitted diseases or aids?

    can they still get aids or other sexual diseases even if they were virgin when they got married and they haven't been together for a long time and they have only had each other as sex partners ,despite all of that would they also be at risk of sexual diseases ? do they have to go for sexual health check ups too ? i know it's a silly question ,i think i can find the answer on other websites but i want to hear about your personal answers and comments please thanks can married couples get sexually transmitted diseases or aids?
    If it's each other as sex partner's everything can be fine. But their are several std's out their that can be transmitted by physical contact. Like seating on public bathrooms. Or sharing needles, or any sexual objects in that case. But if you guys are careful with this then everything is fine. Try an check online for std's because different ones can be transmitted this way, but other than that everything is fine if both partners are just active themselves :) :) :) can married couples get sexually transmitted diseases or aids?
    Of course a married couple can get AIDS if they have been infected with HIV. If HIV infection is discovered early enough then medications can help in the replication of the virus and they can go on to live a long life.





    AIDS is not a disease, it is a syndrom that develops after infection with HIV and leaves the body vunerable to disease. It may or may not develope in each case of HIV infection.





    You can not transmit AIDS, you transmit the virus that causes AIDS.
    Generally STIs can't just materialise, you have to catch them from someone else, so if both partners are initially virgins and neither is unfaithful they should not get an infection.





    There is a 'but' however, some people consider thrush an STI, however it can arise in a woman unrelated to intercourse, for example following a course of antibiotics, it could then be spread to the male partner. Also some STIs can be spread other than by sex, most can be spread for example by needle sharing in drug addicts. In the past, before the rigorous screening that is now carried out, infections could also be spread by blood transfusions. Also they could theoretically be spread by other needle stick injuries.



    Okay, they don't have to stray.


    STDs are passed by transmitting bodily fluids.


    Example,


    Someone with HIV coughs blood into a healthy persons eye, therefore, the healthy person may get HIV.





    Anybody who has sex with somebody or receives infected blood in anyway, can get an STD.





    Also, a person born to an STD sufferer (whilst pregnant), would probably have an STD.
    Yes, it's possible. They should get tested together. But if one cheats can bring STDs to the other. I read about a man who was having sex with men while he was married. Yet, he was going home and sleeping with her. He ended up with AIDS virus and so did she. How awful for her.








    Really something to worry about in this day and age. It freaks me out to think about this. Some straight acting men are good at hiding that they're bi.








    Anyway, I think it's less likely if they are monogamous.
    statements of being a virgin should be taken with a grain of salt. It is possible to have an STD and not have symptoms. There is no test for HPV for men, but they can spread it to women just the same. A yearly pap smear should be fine for the female, if you feel your mate is not being faithful, testing for STD's would be appropriate. If you become pregnant, STD screening is part of the prenatal profile that most Dr's will order.
    My friend had a std and she was a virgin


    i can't remember what it was called but it was passed from her mother during pregnancy


    her mum should of got something sorted


    But otherwise one person in the marriage must have slept with someone else


    I definately recommend a check up if u know anyone that does have one


    xXx
    Yep! When I went to get the pill, the doctor made me take a chlamydia test. And I said I didn't want to because anytime I'd slept with a guy I'd used a condom etc. But apparently, just bodily contact can create it. And even if they'd slept with no one else before, just think, STD's have to originate from somewhere at some point.
    AIDS you could get from blood transfusion. But its unlikely with the testing, if you get your transfusion in the states. But no if the two of you aren't sleeping around, you shoudn't get AIDS or other STD's
    no, if they haven't touched anyone elses privates and that they have never had any one elses bodily function fluids in them then there good
    yes they can, if any of the parents had a disease during pregnancy or during breast feeding on might have gotten it.



    There would have to be infidelity somewhere along the line to inherit that.
    I one of the couple plays away, then anything is possible
    If they were both virgins then no.





    But anyone can get AIDS/STDs
    only if one was messing around on the other one
    Only if one strayed

    I'm looking for the song on the commercial for the newest season of the Biggest Loser(Couples & Male singer)?

    It involves a couple wanting to lose weight for their daughter and I think the song might say something like ';nothing more to give'; not really sure! ThanksI'm looking for the song on the commercial for the newest season of the Biggest Loser(Couples %26amp; Male singer)?
    Love Remains The Same - Gavin Rossdale


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8R8Qvm24d鈥?/a>