Is it the same? What is the psychology behind this idea? and What your think is the reason on must couples problems?What is your opinion on modern couples?
People learn about relationships and how to have them from their parents. Unfortunately, most parents provide terrible examples.What is your opinion on modern couples?
We teach about human relations in counseling sessions. There are an unbelievable number of people receiving counseling.
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Personally, I think that the divorce rate is so high because people are getting married younger, and I'll admit I'm young but I am 25 and I am getting married soon. I have been with him for four years though and we have been through EVERYTHING together and when I say everything I mean everything.
I think that people are just to easy going on the whole marriage thing now. They know someone for 6 months and they are just like hey lets get hitched and the reality is that it doesn't end up working out because they thought they knew everything about each other when they really can't stand one another.
That's just my little piece of opinion! Good question.
Marriage tends to get to routine. It can come to a point that the marriage is nothing more than a daily schdule. After I Do the fun dating discovery part tends to fade. As a couple their needs to be a schduled times that it is just mom, dad night. Keep dating each other even after I do. Budgets need to be setup. When the financial disiplines are set then a lot of financial stress that distroys relationships can be avoided. Regularly set and reset goals and dreams so you both are working towards the same goals. Goals on, Family, relationship, financial, rewards, and whatnot should be addressed. Learn about the process of setting goals and how to break it down to achieve.
Happiness is the process of achieving, and as a couple that is really true.
I sadly have learned this the hard way. But it is very true and realistic approach.
Late statistical surveys have shown women to engage more
in all kinds of sexual activities like no other time before.
Cheat, whatever. Women are more sexualy liberated than ever before. Making the previous statments that men have more testosteron thats why men naturally think more often about sex than women generally do, a big pseudo scientific lie!
Women from a psycological-evolutionary point of view,
choose a good provider and *also* need a sexual aggressive predator/lover.
Usually women need a nice guy most of the time and when they ovulate, they go out and seek the more non-feeling but animal-aggressive and sexy macho dudes.
People are growing prettier and prettier. Men are generally getting prettier.
Getting a man who is animal like aggressive and also a good provider (the 2 in 1) is getting easier and easier.
Women will get to face the same sexual frustrations as men generally did,
and face the same problems.
And more of the nasty things women do will more easily come to light.
So finally we can do away with the overall halo-innocent
perspective in wich society generlaly sees women.
This is how I see the future.
Also. Because sex is more liberated than ever before.
And lust is much more important than responsibilities at first.
Relationships never stand ground for long.
Im not complaining. I only wish I were the one who gets to get all the fun with all different kinds of, and get into many relationships with pretty women.
Sadly I have to step aside and let the pretty people have their way with eachother and theres no room for ugly people like me.
a magor problem is the media and what
kind of message they send to society
through their choice in programing
People fail to understand that they need to be partners. It has to be 50-50 in any relationship or the person that is giving more will feel cheated and go looking for a better mate.
As for the divorce rate, I think the biggest factor has to be how much later we are now getting married. At 18 you don't know who you are so how could you really understand what you need from someone else.
Too much premarital sex. People want the perks without the commitment. When sex is made into something that can be done outside of a marriage commitment, it hurts the family. Babies without fathers in the house, abortions and parents who have given themselves to so many people besides their spouse, all cause the breakdown of the family and society.
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