Why is it hard to find black and white couples together that don't have low self esteem?

Yes this is true,


usually these people talk down about their raceWhy is it hard to find black and white couples together that don't have low self esteem?
I'm wondering the same thing,





Ugly black guy with fat white woman.Why is it hard to find black and white couples together that don't have low self esteem?
you're talking about a union of two people from the most extreme, opposite poles of society. most- certainly not ALL- white women who are not only open to serious intimate relationships with black men, but aggressively seek such relationships, generally do so because they have been rejected by white men for whatever reasons. Yes, they are often extremely overweight and generally unattractive, often with rough edges more times than not, but are also very kind, mentally strong (not necessarily lacking self-esteem), and loyal to their partners. They know that black men will not reject them because of the high ranking of white women in society, and that they will be treated very well and taken care of. Attractive, well educated, professional white women do not interact socially with black men due to the stigmatization that comes along with black males in society. These women are glorified by all men in society and have a generous pool of white males to choose from, and, as such, have neither need nor necessity to interact with black men. The exception to this rule may be a handful of relationships involving people who are successful in the entertainment industry and who have accumulated substantial amounts of money- Ben Harper and Laura Dern; Seal and Heidi Klum, who is not an American woman; Ellen Pompeo and Chris Ivery, to name a few. When you have so much money and are virtually invulnerable to any and all stones that society can set in your path, racial differences tend to take a back seat to everything else and become trivial, as they should be. On the contrary, interracial couples have to be much stronger than other couples to sustain all the blows that society deals them, time and again.
What? are you serious? this is the most rediculous thing I have ever heard and I know plenty of inter-racial couples. My husband and I are a mixed race couple and we don't have low self esteem. My husband and I are both successful and blessed. We have Children of mixed race and they are normal as well.





get a life and stop putting your assumptions on others.
This question and your response to my question is the reason why we are still stuck on the concept of race today.





This attitude that is so prevalent in many people of all races is why it will take us many more years to heal the racial divide that is so present in the U.S. and around the world.





It's simple ignorance that many don't bother to correct.





Interracial dating has no barring on a person's self-esteem and being in an interracial relationship does not mean you hate those of your particular race.





Love is a beautiful thing no matter what skin color you are or who you choose to be with.
my self esteem is just fine thank you, and my husbands is off the chart, but then he is successful, hard working has decent credit and a good home to come back to every night.





Just what exactly is your issue, if we as a mixed couple bother you so much then don't look at us.





and to answer yet ANOTHER asinine assumption am most certainly not over weight.
Not true here. I have very high self-esteem and nothing against my ';own kind.'; My husband loves black women and finds them very attractive. He just happened to fall in love with me. My last boyfriend before him was white and his last girlfriend before me was black.





And before you come up with your next favorite stereotype, both hubby and I are considered very attractive.





EDIT: Ahhh, yet another one. I'm not fat.
Not true.





Does Kerry Washington have low self esteem?





Does Robert Deniro?





Kerry dates white men and Robert is married to a black woman.
Not really I'm dating a mulatto guy (Mexican and black) and I don't have low self esteem at all, I never talk down on black guys
that's not true at all.