Why do a lot of couples do great together, stick together, even bring children but refuse marrying eachother?

What else are they waiting for to think of a real commitment?Why do a lot of couples do great together, stick together, even bring children but refuse marrying eachother?
Some like to live in Sin. Thank you for askingWhy do a lot of couples do great together, stick together, even bring children but refuse marrying eachother?
because history shows once they finally get married they last maybe one year


why, who knows, maybe they feel all tied down, and during that year they act different towards each other because they feel they OWN the other person, and seeing that the piece of paper now states that if she wants to kick him out she can and get half or more of everything he has, changes everything


silly ..yes...but it does happen to a lot of people








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The reason is simple,the main truth about God's plan for marriage has been turned into lies,first the couples must get married then have children and do great things together by so doing brings the blessings of God to the children's children,so unless what God has said is followed to the letter the children will not be blessed
I believe it comes down to one thing only.


They have seen successful people become monsters when splitting up in marriages.


They become traumatized by the fact most marriages end in divorce and they wish to give their love a chance a being called love and not an institution for commitment.


I bet in 99 percent of those cases of not wanting to get married it is either a time or money issue or they have been directly affected by a


divorce, such as their parents.
some people don't need a piece of paper and expensive rings to signify that they're in it together forever....and others don't believe the the sanctity of marriage had been upheld in modern society....so they say, ';what's the point'; it's up to the couple. some people think you need it, but hey, if you're fine without, i say more power to ya!!!!
Maybe they don't think they need a ring just to show their commitment to each other. Or maybe they're afraid marriage will jinx their relationship. Plus if they did decide to split later it would be a lot less complicated if they didn't have to go through a divorce.
Marriages...........they bind couples legally.





Most of people are committed %26amp; fulfilling their responsibility.....but some how the do not want to bind them self in legal formalities.





They can be bind with each other %26amp; can be separated form each other .....all with mutual understanding keeping the law aside.





do you agree?
Its not that you ';refuse'; to get married, sometimes it just doesn't happen.





I've been with my partner 9 years, we each were married before and have kids, my kids live with us. We keep meaning to get married its just not such a big ';event'; second time around plus we live in a different country to our parents/family/friends so what do we do invite them all over or just do it and tell them? Too much stress for me.
They dont want their relationship to feel forced. They dont want to feel that they HAVE to be together. Also, taxes are a major thing :D


But it really is about how people view life, and their relationships.





Hope I helped, :) %26lt;3
because lots of people start out so happy and everything falls apart when they're married.


over half of marriages end in divorce,


so what's the point? if you know you love one another, why legalize it? what's a license really gonna do for you
my auntie and uncle did that, they've been together for 40 years and then this year decided to get married..i dunno why.


my auntie said she wanted all me and my cousins to get to go to a big wedding :)
If it ain't broke why fix it? Some people are happy the way things are and don't need a piece of paper to prove they are committed. Most of these relationships last longer then marriages anyway.
thats a very guud question thats the situation mi brother is in right now hes living with someone and has a son.... but he refuses 2 propose... ithink its becouse fear of commitment and he wants the freedom still ...


and she is just waiting...
that's us we have been together since we were 15 ,we are 36 now have 2 children ,payed our mortgage off ,joint bank account we are happy , sometimes we talk about getting married but spend the money on family holidays instead x
Some people like it better that way but i chose to marry just because i loved my wife so much and i needed to show her that.
There's so much more freedom when you're not married to the person. Many people cherish and cling to their freedom. I know I wish some times I could have that freedom back.
Maybe marriage is becoming tokenistic. Good Q. ;-)
Some people think there is no point, because things will still be the same. Some think that its just a piece of paper and there is no sentimental feeling.
Tax insentives
I think they think it's because it would be easier if they wanted to seperate.
maybe its already real enough and a marriage = pressure?
Just because you don't involve the law doesn't mean youre not in love. Marriage is over rated.
maybe they are afraid of it falling and then having to get a divorce and go thru all the fighting about what belongs to who later on.
Maybe they just don't like the concept of marriage.
I keep asking myself the same, maybe they just want to save their time for divorce documents?
I think they're happy with what they already have.
marriage is not part of the equation for everybody
Fear of commitment
Some people don't like the idea of marriage.
Lack of morals!
Marriage just isn't for some people