Why dont teen couples last after they have sex?

only like 2% last whyy is that?Why dont teen couples last after they have sex?
Say, for example, you're in a 6 month relationship when you decide to have sex. Sex, at that age, is sensationalized, and many teens equate sex with love. When, in fact, 9 times out of ten, you're just infatuated with the other person. Being infatuated is when you think you're in love, but you are, in actuality, just extremely attracted to that person; intense, but short, period of extreme attraction to another -- different than love which is long term; 'for ever and ever'.





So, since, in this scenario, the two think they're 'in love', and they're having sex which is meant to be equal to love, but since they're not actually 'in love', sex just shows this to them.


They think they're planting a spike in solid soil


When, really, they're planting that spike in a cloud; it looks like it should work, like the spike would stick, but really, it just falls right through; falls apart.





Many adults have relationships where the two are sexual active, and they're not necessarily 'in love', but at that age, they have developed the maturity to be realistic what sex tend to be, a lot of the time; short-term pleasure.








Brayden, 16.Why dont teen couples last after they have sex?
Relationships change. Often times, females become more emotional and attached to the guy and the guy just isn't ready for a really serious relationship. And sex can lead to discussing marriage or starting a family which can freak one of the couple out (male or female).





Personally, this hasn't happened to me. I'm still with the guy that I lost my virginity to and we were 18 when that happened. We were serious already though when we had sex and it didn't change a lot of things. To us, sex is another way of expressing our love to each other ... and it is fun! It's important but it's not the most important thing in our relationship.





A lot of teens just aren't ready for a serious relationship and I believe that if teens are having sex they should be in a good solid relationship. Like two fifteen year olds who have sex after three months of dating? Now really ... that is ridiculous! They are most likely going to have different expectations.





When it gets to my age (18, 19) then it is different - there are couples who have dated for a couple years and they usually stay together. Not necessarily ';forever'; but until something else goes wrong - the sex is not the most important part to them.
im 16, and at the moment im messing around with a friend. Mature adults wouldnt do it and would have a proper relationship with a girl before they did unless shes a ****, but all teenage guys think about it sleeping with girls. The only difference with me is that I admit it. I try and be more caring , and I dont go into a relationship just for sex, but its a big part of it. 99% of the girls I have been out with ive only done so because I really liked their personality. As far as teen couples not lasting, a close female friend of mine made my friend dump his girlfriend because she said ';Theres no point in being in a sexless relationship';. They were getting on very well and she wears a purity ring and I was disgusted but havent said anything. If a girl wore a purity ring, I would try and get her into bed, and if she refused I wouldnt dump her for it. So my friends relationships were build around sex, not liking each other. My current relationship is like this, but were both having fun and I dont care if it lasts or not. Thats probably why they dont last.





Guys are jerks. Deal with it.
Because more often than not, the sex isn't what they thought it would be and since their relationship is usually based on sex and chemistry, if the sex doesn't work, neither does the relationship! When the foundation of a relationship is based on sex rather than all the important things, the foundation crumbles because there's nothing solid left to hold it together. This is what us ';old people'; always try to tell kids but they think we're stupid!
Generally if a relationship is already doomed but people have a chance of having sex, they'll stay in the relationship... it's not even something conscious honestly, it's our biological urges. So then when they have sex, the subconscious urge to stay together is gone, and the fact that the relationship was doomed already comes to light.





That's my theory anyway.
Idk Most people say that sex brings problems like mabi the guy want to keep having sex after they have had it once more than being together also the risk of having children and also after feeling the great things sex has to offer if theirs more attractive people than the one you have you may be thinking about cheating to have sex with that even more attractive person
because they put sex before actually caring and respecting each other... they both are pretty much just looking for sex not an actual relationship, thats why its better to wait until after you guys have feeling for each other that are more then lust....and it could just be one party looking for just sex to.. i found that one out the hard way....
Well it's never happened to me but I can imagine that it's really awkward after you've been so far with them. Also, most of the people interested in sex probably don't see the value in a long-lasting relationship.
i dont think you can generalise like that, plenty of couples i know have lasted. and where did u get that statistic from anyway?





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probably because they are not emotionally secure or mature enough to handle their relationship after sex. many teens think theyre ready and realize too late that theyre not.
because they base the relationship on lust and physical attraction, rather than on getting to know each other and being best friends too, which is what makes a relationship last :)
because most teen couples are ego. and arent mature enough to be having sex yet. those 2%...are
because the nature of guys.


once you give them sex they want more and if you don't want to give more they say goodbye.
because they rush into it, half the time it aint the real thing.
that why they shouldn't!