Thursday, May 13, 2010

What are your views on same sex couples adopting?

Growing up in a normal family is hard enough for many kids.


Growing up in a single parent home is really hard for many kids.


Many adoptees have expressed how hard it is to grow up adopted into a family with an adoptive mom and an adoptive dad...feeling different....wishing things were different.....some wishing they were aborted or never born.... or never adopted.......now throw gay adoptive parents into the mix. I think it's wrong wrong wrong. A disaster in the making.What are your views on same sex couples adopting?
If they can provide a stable loving home then there is no problem


Doesn't matter what youe sexual perference is.What are your views on same sex couples adopting?
I personaly think it makes it hard for the child because look at the two guys who bought a camper to travel in with the little boy they had so he could do his home work and not be judged by the public....Do not just think of your self think of the other person.





I have a cousin who married a black man and when they got married her mother said when are you going to have kids and his reply was '; there will not be any because i is not fair to the child'; They are old now and still NO KIDS,
No problem. The only requirement is that they provide a stable and loving home.
The same as it would be if different sex couples wanted to adopt or people of different races wanted to adopt...the same reason I want to adopt! I want to help a child in need and be the best ';mommy'; I can for him / her.
They have the same human rights as anyone else to be able to adopt. They cannot be discriminated against becasue they are not heterosexual. They have no differing abilities to parent than a heterosexual. They have to be judged on parenting ability just as everyone else is.
Gay couples should be able to adopt just like straight couples can. It should be an equal process.
Its wrong..and the child should have a choice if they want to go to a gay or not.
I think same sex couples are as capable of providing love, security, stability, food, shelter, emotional support, and any and all needs a child has, as an opposite sex couple.





I also think they are fully capable of understanding the special situation caused by the discrimination their family suffers, and I'm sure they have the ability (and willingness) to take the necessary actions to keep their children safe, physically and emotionally, in the face of adversity.
Any couple, gay or straight that has proven themselves (homestudy, criminal check, meet with social worker etc...) worthy of being a parent should do so. Gay people have the ability (just as straight people) to be great parents. For that matter, so do single parents. You need the capacity to love, that's all.
My views are the same for any couple, gay or straight, adopting a child. As long as they are a caring couple who want what's best for the child, more power to them. And I'd wish the best for all three.
It's alright as long as they let the kid pick what sexual orientation they want. I do think that the kid will have a rough childhood however, especially getting teased in school.
The same feeling I have about anyone adopting. If they will be good parents, care and love their children, and raise them the best they are able, more power to them.

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