Are there any married couples who indulged in a threesome only to regret it afterwards? If so, why?

Threesome yes, regret no.Are there any married couples who indulged in a threesome only to regret it afterwards? If so, why?
Yes, we've indulged in many threesomes with other women and men throughout our marriage, and no, we don't regret them at all. Well, maybe one, because he ended-up being a complete jerk when we got to the hotel room and Mrs. kicked him out. That was a waste of $100 for a room. But between Mrs. and I? No. Our marriage was strong before we started swinging, we both have sexual fantasies that include more than just us being in the bed at the same time, we are both secure in ourselves and in each other, and our marriage has only gotten better since.





Today we communicate at a level light years above our non-swinger married friends. Not only are we lovers, we're also each others best friend. And the level of honesty and trust swinging has solidified between us is something neither of us ever thought could exist in a relationship.





We know we are ';it'; for each other. We know that each other is here because we want to be, not because we feel we have to be. We don't have to constantly think about what each other is doing or if they are doing something they are not supposed to because there is no reason for us to lie to each other... About anything. From sex to money to family matters, we are completely open and honest with each other because there is no fear of the other becoming hurt or angry or jealous by what it said.Are there any married couples who indulged in a threesome only to regret it afterwards? If so, why?
Threesomes were never a problem. It was some of the twosomes that we came to regret.





I doubt the person who claims that most marriages end up with problems because of doing a threesome has any statistics to back that up. That sort of statistic is usually pulled out the posterior rather than being done by actual research.
I haven鈥檛 personally, but I鈥檝e known a few couples who did it and every one of them regretted it big time. In one case, their marriage ended over it.





These are very 'open鈥?couples who were just looking to 鈥榮pice things up鈥?and they thought they could handle it, but they couldn鈥檛.





It is the *rare* couple who can do this and it has no effect on their marriage. In most cases, jealousy does rear its head, then its followed by anger (even though both parties agreed), and it gets worse from there.





My advice鈥攊f you鈥檙e considering this, don鈥檛. This one of those things that鈥檚 best to remain a fantasy.



When you engage in a three some, you're inviting problems maybe not right away but sooner or later you will.The person involved can become attached and can create problems later on, or your partner may think they're not truly loved or resent doing that type of thing and sometimes engage in affairs of their own, which creates problems.The other's self esteem can be effected by not feeling good enough. Most marriages end up in major trouble after doing that.I don't recommend it.
Coming from a woman it is harder the way i felt after wards was is she better then me is he going to leave me for her. And i hated felling like that, also having the feeling of another girl in my bead i hated it. but its all in the feelings, don't get me wrong i am not a prude i guess if you are going to donut do it with her best friend. but some woman say it better that way because then the girl wont turn around and have sex with him when your not there and that is not true all the time ether. But this is just my opinion. its all in the girl and what she wants. good luck.
Never did. It's already a hard row to hoe to keep your marriage satisfying and secure I don't think bringing in a third party would help
Had a few threesomes, mfm, and cuckolds with my wife of nearly 20 years with no regrets.
FFM usually is pretty safe.


MMF usually leads to problems.
We talkin' golf or canasta here?
happy to say that in our experiences we've had no issues or regrets