Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Is it true that the birth of a baby can affect a couples way of life negatively?

Having a newborn in the house is stressful, and caring for an infant is hard work. They depend on you for everything, and you're often doing it on very little sleep. For obvious reasons, this can put a strain on a couple.





However, it doesn't have to ruin your relationship, if you remember to support each other and listen to each other, allow each other breaks for time to yourselves, and focus on communicating and staying connected. Remember that the hard part doesn't last very long.





A newborn does add stresses to a relationship that weren't there before. But that doesn't doom your relationship to failure-- it just means you have to work a little harder for awhile, and be more focused on sustaining love for each other as well as for the child. Ultimately, your relationship can come out even stronger.Is it true that the birth of a baby can affect a couples way of life negatively?
Um...what way of life? When you have a baby you won't have a life anymore that doesn't revolve around the baby. When a baby is born it basically eats and sleeps and sh*ts. Most of the time the parent's will be happy just to be able to get a shower or a hot meal in the first couple of weeks. After that usually everyone starts getting on a bit of a schedule, but you still won't have time to do anything.Is it true that the birth of a baby can affect a couples way of life negatively?
If they let it!....your lives are going to change, and its up to the two of you weather that it changes you as a couple in a positive way or a negative way. You are going to have to support eachother, and help eachother out, when one is down and out the other has to be strong, if your having a baby and your still together im hoping you are in love, and that means being there and staying strong and positive through thick and thin! Keep a positive attitude, remember when people are tired and stressed out then they will tend to be on edge and ';grouchy'; the two of you will just have to make sacrifices, and be there for eachother. But most important your child comes first, if your argueing about something stupid, think back to when you were a child and how it affected you seeing people like that. Well thats the best advice i can give....its all up to the two of you...this could make for a wonderful relationship....or a terrible one...good luck and best wishes!
truthfully yes it can however it's not the child's fault it's the parents fault. when a new baby comes into the home things can become more stressful for everyone involved. sometimes people just can't handle the pressure which in turn negatively effects the relationship. however, if you try to resolve the issues instead of fighting over them then it will just make your relationship stronger.
Well, actually it's not the baby that affects it negatively, it's the jeslousy of the baby's father that affects it
If you aren't positive and the relationship wasn't strong from the beggining it can :(
Your question is kind of funny - anything is possible! :)
no it is not
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