I am sure you have heard the phrase: It takes work to maintain a relationship. I suppose both of you are not committing as much time to each other as before. Think about how both of you guys behave and act around in other in the beginning you guys started off and compare it to now. To keep the flame in the relationship alive, both parties would need work together. I suggest you have a talk with him first. Be true to him about how you feel before deciding your next step.Do couples together longer time go off sex?
not at all...i been in a relationship for five years now and everytime we get intimate i feel like it is the first time...maybe you shouldnt get married and re evaluate the relationship
Why are you getting married? A marriage which lacks passion is bound to fail.
If you're getting married you will need to keep faking it. Sex is a big part of life for a man. It doesn't always fall apart for people who are together for a long time, but does have down periods. You may want to ask yourself if you are really still into him.
Sex, and the lack of, are indicators of the overall health of the relationship. My wife of ten years and I, still have sex on a regular basis. It does fade after the initial flush of hormones. And stress from work, children, and life in general can take the bloom off the rose as well.
Answer these questions for yourself:
Are you bored?
Are you never satisfied when you do have sex?
Have you tried toys, new positions, games?
Is he a selfish lover?
Though I would say that 19 is too young to marry. Especially to a predator nine years older than you.
BEEN MARRIED FOR 32 YRS AND I CANT IMAGINE NOT HAVEING SEX ALESS 3 OR 4 TIMES A WEEK GO SEE A DR IT MAY BE UR HORMONES
Don't fake it, because it would mean faking your happiness.I see that you are a very honest person that's the best policy, tell him that you are not happy having sex lately, and from there maybe you two can work for the relation ship, trying different place or atmosphere or going to counseling.
Don't marry him. Your lack of interest in sex is likely because you don't feel the same way about your BF. You were together for a long time and it seems you were very young when you started going out with him (seriously you had a baby with him at 12???). You need to get out and experience life on your own and meet new people. Don't enter into a marriage feeling the way you do.
You had a child with a 21 year old when you were 12? Dude should be locked up.
if you stop having sex with him, the relationship will end...
i've been with my wife 15 years... i love sex, but she doesn't... and the relationship is coming to an end because of it...
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