Sunday, January 17, 2010

What requirements should couples have before they can get married?

really ask themselves if this is the person they really want to see for the res of their lives. Too many divorces.What requirements should couples have before they can get married?
You being at least age 24 without living together before that age.





THE RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE


Leaving out the opinions on this, I’m going to cover the facts of what’s it’s like to be in a “LONG TERM” relationship.





First, it is an established statistical fact that relationships involving people who co-habitat and/or get married prior to age 24 have an 85% failure rate. Biologically, this is when females reach full mature on the physical, emotional, and hormonal levels. At this point, a woman is fully prepared to have and handle children, as well as a male that is still not fully mature.





Males don’t reach full physical and hormonal maturity until age 30. This is also when they reach their peak emotional maturity, but not to the point of being fully independent. Half of the male emotional health comes from a woman. The biochemical frequency range of the male brain adjusts itself to match that of the female, developing an emotional symbiotic relationship.





Couples who begin cohabiting and/or get married prior to age 24 can find themselves drawing away from each other as each reaches full maturity. Their whole view of the world, and each other, changes. This doesn’t happen to all couples, but clearly it is a factor in most relationship breakdowns.





In a couple, who has made the right choices, and found that person who truly compliments them, a symbiotic relationship develops also on the physical level. There is a reason why humans were designed to be monogamous. It comes down to the sexual experience that goes beyond pleasure and reproduction.





Seminal plasma (fluid carrying semen) and vaginal fluids contain addition chemicals that the other sex needs. Chemicals in seminal plasma help strengthen the Uterine Wall, not only making it stronger for the carrying of a fetus, but also because the uterus provides physical support for other organs, such as the bladder and the intestinal tract. For males, vaginal fluid reinforces their immune system and affects future production of semen. But, there’s a downside.





The human body adapts to the specific molecular makeup of the seminal plasma and vaginal fluid. The two bodies develop a symbiotic relationship that becomes dependent upon the other. Having multiple partners keeps these functions in constant disarray, always trying to adapt to a new molecular makeup, affecting the overall health of the individual.





This is one of the reasons, and benefits, of developing a long term monogamous relation. For men, there are additional reasons.





A married male lives 20 years longer than a single male, on average. Aside from the physical symbiosis, because a woman provides emotional support, he has less stress, an overall cause of frequent death in males.





For a female, her reproductive and sexual health last longer, not only with the ability to reproduce into her 40s and even 50s, but also continue the ability for sexual pleasure well into the later years.





A monogamous couple become a single, symbiotic unit, standing ready to take on what the world throws at them. They provide the umbrella of strength for the family and the protection of the children. They are core from which the children draw their knowledge and experience of what a family should be, so that they may follow the example of the parents, when they reach maturity and venture out into the world.





This is what it is truly like to be in a relationship, when you make the right choices.





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I think there should be at least 25 like for insurance,yu really don't start thinking like an adult till that age,besides when your young life is fast and changing constantly.till you finally understand what is all envolved in marriage and the duties that support it.It's something that you always have to adjust cause your not the some persom you was 3 or 5 years ago .so the person you married isn't the same person either.you may deeply love each other now and in 2 years change and fall out of love as fast as you fell in,(food for thought)just go together till that age and if your're stuill together maybe it will work.Oh and the most important is preparing you future with a good job is important.financial difficulties can cause a lot of divorces.I am not an expert but by actual living experiance.I 'm open to chat ,I a;so learn more too
I think they should have therapy, a physical exam for all diseases, a drug test, and a lie detection test. Also you should have to wait 6 months after you file for the license just like you have to wait for a divorce.
Number one requirement is communication, followed by ability to trust each other emotionnally and financially.
A mutual respect for each other; a good future plan; and real trust among each other.
The one that files for divorce loses kids,car,house,boat more people would stay together then.
They are of legal age (18 in most states) and that they love each other.
A seven year contract......
Isn't this the same question you posted 20 minutes ago?

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